‘War does not determine what is right- only who is left’ how true it is- conflict, hatred, destruction and endless sufferings .The world has become a synonym of infernal torture during the war while he was still scalded with ‘fire’ meeting her was like a cool shower.

Leaving people behind her, leaving childhood memories behind her, leaving a place which she used to call her home and making a new home, her sacrifice cannot be mentioned in words “she deserves much more importance, respect then what is being delivered to her”.

TE IUBESC/TE AMO

I love you, a very short and common sentence, but it has a very deep meaning, te iubesc and te amo both means I love you, one in Romanian and other in Italian. Both these languages have an impact in Rome.

While mentioning about love Romeo cannot be sidelined, ‘Romeo Juliet’; a man dreams  his lady to be like Juliet and a lady dreams her man to be Romeo, but are they making any efforts for this? There is a big question mark, but the answer is simple as said by Mahatma Gandhi – ‘Be the change you want to see in this world’.
Expectations are good but implementations are necessary.

PROMISE

When you truly love someone and you decide to spend every single moment of the rest of your life loving that special someone.  Making a promise is an act of true love that really shows how far you go and make your love shine bright.

Don’t promise to bring the moon, stars, money, cars. Promise that when your better half  is sad you’ll turn into a comedian, when sick you’ll turn into a doctor, when in trouble you’ll turn into a superman and when need of love you’ll turn into ‘me’.

3 STAGES IN LOVE –   ATTRACTION, HESITATION, SUFFOCATION.

ATTRACTION

It is the first stage of love, feeling attracted to someone doesn’t mean you are in love with that person; you are feeling it because you don’t see any difference between love and attraction. When you feel attracted to someone you want to have that person in your life. But once the person is in your life your interest in him/her starts declining after a certain time.

HESITATION

After attraction and starting of internal feelings for the person the time comes for approaching and most of the people hesitate, people say that we cannot identify our ‘soul mate’ but what if I say ‘yes’ we can. Because sometimes action speaks louder than words.

There are few things that only our soul mate will exhibit without any hesitation. People are afraid to come forward and do certain things for each other and this hesitation leads to ‘heart breaks’.

SUFFOCATION

Space issues plague for every couple at a time or other , for many it’s an ongoing sense of contention. Suffocation is mainly because of differences in thinking and certain act that are not liked by the other partner.

Love should not cause suffocation or death if it is true love. Don’t bundle someone into an uncomfortable cage just because you want to ensure their safety in your life; the bird knows where she belongs and will never fly to a wrong nest.

DEATH OF RELATIONSHIP’S

Relationships never have a natural death. They are always murdered by attitude, behavior, ego, or ignorance; certain problems if not resolved in time lead to the end of a relationship. Psychologists say one’s negative behavior is the key player in the end of the relation. Your behavior with your soul mate shows your respect towards each other which is very important for a strong bonding.

There are many other factors that lead to the death of a relationship but behavior is the key one among all. Behavior creates issues which are very hard to resolve.

‘Negligence slowly kills relationship but indifference is the ultimate death of it’.

LET’S MAKE A PROMISE THIS SUMMER,” WILL NOT LEAVE EACH OTHER’s HANDS FOREVER”.

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